4 Ways To Have Your Best Year Yet!!

4 Ways To Have Your Best Year Yet!!



It’s a New Year and for sure you all have goals and resolutions that you want to implement for a successful 2018.  What if you could change the way this year looked for you?   Well I have 4 tips  that you can do right now to have your best year yet!!


best year yet


  1. Commit to becoming a decision maker.

The #1 thing that holds people back is the word SHOULD.  I should lose weight, start my business, start my YouTube channel, start a blog, take a vacation etc, etc.

Stop the SHOULDS!!  WE second guess ourselves way too often.   We let all of our fears , self-doubt and excuses get in the way and this my friend stops us from doing the things that can ultimately help us create our best life.

99% of the first initial thoughts you have in your head about decisions you want to make are the right decisions.  The thoughts that you are dismissing and ignoring are your intuition guiding you.  Make it a habit this year  to listen to your intuition more often.  It is something you have to learn to do because it doesn’t come easily or naturally.  It’s a learnt behavior.

In 2018 you SHOULD commit to becoming a decision maker and take action!  Act on those initial thoughts and stop letting fear, self-doubt and excuses get in the way of making decision that will lead to a better life.

A great book to read is The 5 Second Rule by Mel Robbins.  Mel talks about how to get over your hesitations and fears with the 5 second rule to making decisions.


“we will always act in accordance to who we believe we are not what we think we should do”


  1. Commit 

People who are doing all the things you admire do them because the goals they set for themselves are the priorities in their life and they are committed to achieving them.  They are not better than you are,  they just committed to their goals and set a high standard for themselves to accomplish their goals no matter what.

Sometimes, are standards need to be a bit higher and we need to place more value and priority on the things we want to achieve.  Raise your standards on all the things that are a priority in your life.  You should have higher standards for yourself.   What is important to you?  What do you want to accomplish this year?   Make a list of your goals.   Break your goals down into smaller doable pieces and commit to taking action daily.  Commit to making these actions a priority everyday!


  1. Focus On Your Relationships

The things you want to get done this year will be as a result of the people around you.  People are important to your success.  No one can do it all alone.

Evaluate your current relationships and distance yourself from the ones that no longer aid in your growth.

Breakout of your comfort zone and revive old relationships that are valuable. Strengthen your relationships with those around you by networking, building new relationships on and offline that help build you up and propel you forward along your journey.


  1. Change your Prespective.

Make an effort to stop focusing on what’s going wrong in your life, your lack and what you don’t have or can’t do.   Be grateful for what you do have.  Focus on gratitude and become solution oriented.  No matter where you are in your life be grateful.  You are where your meant to be believe that.  Practice gratitude everyday from the moment you wake up, focus on being thankful.   Appreciate the journey as much as the end goal because the journey to the end goal is way more fun.


“Everything is figureoutable” Marie Forleo


If there is something you want to do and don’t know how to do it.  Don’t get discouraged find a solution.  YouTube it, ask a friend, google it, for heaven sake just try.  Stop focusing on the challenges.  Sometimes simply taking the first step of trying, alleviates fears and then we see that the thing we thought was so hard and scary wasn’t so bad if we just took the first step and broke down the big scary thing into manageable pieces.


Both of these things will change your perspective.


Over to you, have these tips helped you?  Which ones will you implement for the New Year?   Let me know in the comments below. 




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25 Comments to 4 Ways To Have Your Best Year Yet!!

  1. Effort and stepping out of your comfort zone. All of those things you’ve always wanted to do, just do it. Love this!

  2. Wow! I really needed to read this. Literally all of these apply to me. I’m bookmarking this post to refer back to throughout the year. Thank you!

  3. I feel like I have watched my mom stay still by just not making decisions. I have actively tried to not be like her but sometimes I still find myself just not committing and making decisions.

  4. Jeanine

    I am really hoping this year is the best year yet for me. I am looking forward to 2018 and hoping some great things happen! This year, I really want to focus more on my relationships. YES.

  5. Great tips. We “should” say/think less in the “should” and more in the “I will”. That is so true!

  6. Tara

    Love all of your tips! I definitely need to learn to make decisions and commit myself to them!

  7. I love your tips! we all need to be reminded of these things.

  8. yes, yes, and yes! I’m totally ready to dominate 2018.

  9. This is wonderful advice for anyone in 2018. I especially like omitting to relationships. It is a year, for me, to grow the good ones and cut out the bad.

  10. Great advice to make a decision and follow through and commit to it. You need to value your important relationships and discard the rest if they are not helping you grow.

  11. Change my perspective is what I am currently working on. It’s hard to be okay with not jumping on things when my body says no and so I need to change how I view things because it’s okay to rest myself! Success is what you make it!

  12. These are some awesome tips! It’s great to mix things up a bit and change perspective and make a change. Keeps things fresh and regains focus!

  13. Love all these tips! I really have to remind myself to prioritize self-care & my relationships as goals, not just financial/career/fitness/etc. goals.

  14. I loved the very first one! I can flipflop on a decision for MONTHS. I love the watching relationships one, too. That is the source of all happiness, I believe!

  15. I’ve decided to take your advice right this second and texted my long distance BFF. I haven’t been talking to her much lately because we both have two little ones, but I miss her!

  16. There is so much truth and great advice in this post! Perspective is everything! Great post!

  17. Love these! Commit is a huge one. I think we all set out to make these huge goals, but never fully know how to commit ourselves to them.

  18. I really LOVE your 4th rule! Look at the good in everything ALWAYS and appreciate every little damn thing!

  19. This actually very good advice for anyone! I think it’s really good to have a commitment on doing better, it promotes consistency too. Focusing on relationships is one of the things that I’ll be doing this year as well. More time for loved ones is essential!

  20. robin rue

    I had a horrible year in 2017, so I am looking forward to a much better year this year. I am really working on it.

  21. Yes, these are great tips. You are so right! My problem is that I always have a problem committing to a goal. Hopefully this year, I can change that!

  22. This post really relates to my goal for 208, which is to live intentionally and become more conscious of how my life is progressing, paying more attention to my needs and those around me as well as to work on my relationships and cut off those who are not needed and above all, put God first and let him be my guide and my strength. Thanks for posting….

  23. I didn’t know it but this was something i SO needed to hear! thank you so much for sharing!

  24. The first one! Yaaasss! I mean, we all need a little inspo so thank u for sharing this!!

  25. Yes to everything!! Especially the 3rd one.

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